On Acknowledging One’s Privilege

I dedicated this first post in 2019 for my mother and for my extended family who’ve become my consistent reminder that I have lived a life of privilege – the privilege of health, education, etc. and therefore with this privilege, I should live my life to the service of others and for the benefit of others. The irony of privilege I think is the fact that the life that I live now and the path that I choose – to work not for the sole purpose of money and profit but something with missions that will help empowered others – is only possible because I have a safety net and that safety net is my mother. My mother always taught me that what good is life if you just live it for yourself and I’m guilty as charged for being a self-centered elitist who’s trapped in the bubble of entitlement. This is one of my step towards a life worth living – to acknowledge my privilege and use my resources to do good for others.

India: 7 Hari Untuk Selamanya

Setelah lama absen jalan-jalan dengan Mamak akhirnya saya berkesempatan lagi untuk ikutan open trip kesukaan beliau. Kali ini tujuannya adalah negara yang sama sekali tidak pernah menjadi traveling bucket list saya: India. Ada banyak alasan kenapa saya tidak berminat mengunjungi India; mulai dari berbagai tulisan tentang pengalaman yang ‘aneh aneh’ di India sampai dengan alasan keselamatan sekaligus cerita cerita dari […]

Cont;nue – One Year with a Black Dog

“A semicolon is used when an author could’ve chosen to end their sentence, but chose not to. The author is you and the sentence is your life.”  In less than 48 hours, I’ll say goodbye to one of the hardest years I’ve been through in the 25 years of living my life. These past 12 […]

How I Try to Cope with My Depression by Celebrating Small Wins

As I resort to celebrate the small wins in my daily life, I begin once again to find joy in the mundane. Afterall, waking up, taking shower, having breakfast, meeting a friend is a series of ordinary things that I don’t think of celebrating before. But, it definitely helps to anchor me to the present, whereas before, I was stuck in the future planning of something grander that I forget, being able to live, breathe, surrounded by people who you love and who love you are something joyful.